Review article

Polyamory as the New Monogamy

Tihana Poslon

Abstract

Knowledge about intimate relationships stems primarily from research on monogamous relationships, even though alternative forms of intimate relationships are becoming increasingly popular, especially among younger people. Consensual non-monogamous relationships (CNMs) are challenging traditional views of relationships based upon monogamy. CNM is an umbrella term for three types of relationships (swinging, open relationships, and polyamory) in which partners agree to have additional sexual and/or romantic partners. Between different types of relationships that include sexual openness, but not necessarily a romantic relationship with other partners, polyamory stands out because there is a simultaneous emotional, romantic, and loving bond with multiple partners. Although some perceive polyamory as valid, useful, and acceptable, others consider it perverse, immoral, and unattractive. Thus, this paper will consider the most common misconceptions about polyamorous relationships. Furthermore, the characteristics of people who are more prone to polyamory will be explored, with men being involved more often than women and sexual minorities more often than heterosexual people in polyamorous relationships. In addition, there may be a ranking of partners in polyamory, so it is useful to explore the differences between primary and secondary partners and compare different relationship configurations. Ultimately, the advantages and difficulties of polyamory will be discussed.

Keywords

CNM; monogamy; hierarchical polyamory; non-hierarchical polyamory

Hrčak ID:

304042

URI

https://hrcak.srce.hr/304042

Publication date:

1.11.2022.

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